Unlocking the Power Within: Trying Not To Try

Have you ever experienced moments where you are so engrossed in an activity that time seems to stand still? Those rare instances when everything aligns perfectly and you effortlessly excel at something? The Chinese philosophy of wu wei, or "trying not to try," suggests that these moments of effortless excellence can be cultivated through a counterintuitive approach to life. In this article, we will explore the concept of trying not to try, its roots in ancient wisdom, and how it can be applied to unlock the hidden potential within each of us.

The Paradox of Effort

From a young age, we are taught that success is the result of hard work and effort. We are conditioned to believe that without striving, pushing, and struggling, we will never accomplish anything significant. While perseverance and dedication are undoubtedly important qualities, the paradox of effort suggests that there is another path to excellence.

Trying Not to Try: Ancient China, Modern Science, and the Power of Spontaneity

by Edward Slingerland (Kindle Edition)

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The Chinese philosophy of wu wei challenges the notion that success can only be achieved through relentless effort. Instead, it proposes a different approach – letting go of attachment to outcomes, surrendering control, and trusting the innate wisdom within us.

Embracing Spontaneity

In a society that values planning, structure, and control, embracing spontaneity may seem foolish or reckless. However, wu wei teaches us that there is profound power in surrendering to the flow of life and being fully present in the moment. By letting go of rigid expectations and embracing spontaneity, we open ourselves up to new possibilities and serendipitous experiences.

Imagine a jazz musician improvising, effortlessly blending melodies and harmonies without thinking. They are not exerting effort; they are allowing the music to flow through them. Similarly, when we embrace spontaneity in our own lives, we tap into a wellspring of creativity and intuition that transcends our logical minds.

Cultivating Effortless Action

While it may seem counterintuitive, wu wei suggests that the more we try to control and force outcomes, the further we move away from our natural state of flow. Cultivating effortless action requires us to cultivate a state of relaxed concentration, where we can respond intuitively to the ever-changing circumstances of life.

Practicing mindfulness meditation can be a powerful tool in developing this state of relaxed concentration. By bringing our attention to the present moment and observing our thoughts and emotions without judgment, we train ourselves to let go of attachment and surrender to the natural flow of life.

Letting Go of Ego

Ego, the voice in our heads that constantly seeks validation and control, is often our greatest obstacle to effortless action. It convinces us that we need to prove ourselves, compare ourselves to others, and constantly strive for more. However, wu wei teaches us that true power lies in letting go of ego and embracing our authentic selves.

Letting go of ego does not mean abandoning ambition or personal growth. Rather, it means releasing the attachment to outcomes and finding fulfillment in the present moment. When we let go of the need to prove ourselves, we become free to express our talents and passions without the weight of external expectations.

The Authentic Self

Rediscovering our authentic selves and tapping into our innate wisdom is a powerful journey that requires self-reflection and introspection. It means peeling back the layers of conditioning and societal expectations to uncover our true desires and passions.

Journaling, meditation, and engaging in activities that bring us joy and fulfillment can all be valuable tools in this journey. By exploring what truly resonates with us and aligning our actions with our core values, we step into a state of flow where effort is no longer required.

Embrace the Paradox

Trying not to try may seem paradoxical at first, but it is a profound philosophy that can unlock the power within each of us. By embracing spontaneity, cultivating effortless action, letting go of ego, and rediscovering our authentic selves, we tap into an unlimited source of creativity and potential.

So, the next time you find yourself pushing and struggling towards a goal, take a moment to pause and reflect. Can you let go of the need to control and instead surrender to the natural flow of life? Embrace the paradox, and watch as effortless excellence unfolds before you.

Trying Not to Try: Ancient China, Modern Science, and the Power of Spontaneity

by Edward Slingerland (Kindle Edition)

4.3 out of 5

Language	:	English
File size	:	4009 KB
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Screen Reader	:	Supported
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Print length	:	306 pages

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A deeply original exploration of the power of spontaneity—an ancient Chinese ideal that cognitive scientists are only now beginning to understand—and why it is so essential to our well-being 
Why is it always hard to fall asleep the night before an important meeting? Or be charming and relaxed on a first date? What is it about a politician who seems wooden or a comedian whose jokes fall flat or an athlete who chokes? In all of these cases, striving seems to backfire.
 
In Trying Not To Try, Edward Slingerland explains why we find spontaneity so elusive, and shows how early Chinese thought points the way to happier, more authentic lives. We’ve long been told that the way to achieve our goals is through careful reasoning and conscious effort. But recent research suggests that many aspects of a satisfying life, like happiness and spontaneity, are best pursued indirectly. The early Chinese philosophers knew this, and they wrote extensively about an effortless way of being in the world, which they called wu-wei (ooo-way). They believed it was the source of all success in life, and they developed various strategies for getting it and hanging on to it.
 
With clarity and wit, Slingerland introduces us to these thinkers and the marvelous characters in their texts, from the butcher whose blade glides effortlessly through an ox to the wood carver who sees his sculpture simply emerge from a solid block. Slingerland uncovers a direct line from wu-wei to the Force in Star Wars, explains why wu-wei is more powerful than flow, and tells us what it all means for getting a date. He also shows how new research reveals what’s happening in the brain when we’re in a state of wu-wei—why it makes us happy and effective and trustworthy, and how it might have even made civilization possible.
 
Through stories of mythical creatures and drunken cart riders, jazz musicians and Japanese motorcycle gangs, Slingerland effortlessly blends Eastern thought and cutting-edge science to show us how we can live more fulfilling lives. Trying Not To Try is mind-expanding and deeply pleasurable, the perfect antidote to our striving modern culture.